So I looked at my chart and saw that I had entered 37 cycles :-( I know that isn't all of them either because I wasn't good about keeping track in the beginning. For the first year or so all I did was track the start date of my cycle . .. those were the days of carefree bding - we just did it when we wanted, then it turned into temping, bding according to the schedule, miscarriage and more :-( During these 37 cycles I have seen countless friends, acquaintances and coworkers get pregnant and post their pictures on facebook, while I quietly had three miscarriages. I am a good friend and congratulate them, but I'd be lying if each time I post a Congratulations that I didn't feel a tug on my jealousy bone :-( My DH always says, don't worry about other people getting things because it is not your time . . . but maybe my time to be a mother will never come, and I have to accept the cold hard truth.
I should ovulate around New Years . . . maybe 2012 will be a better year. Pretty Please with Sugar on Top.
My struggles to be a Mother are chronicled in this blog. This blog was started after I got my third positive pregnancy test. I had hoped that the 3rd time was going to be a charm, but I have since lost that one too. I still have hope that I will be able to have a healthy baby of my own someday despite having three angel babies. Things changed when I felt a lump on my breast . . . my journey now includes breast cancer treatment. I have no idea if I can still be a mother after this . . .
Background
Wednesday, December 28, 2011
Tuesday, December 27, 2011
What NOT to say to the infertile this holiday
I loved this blog article and just had to share!! The article is written for the holidays, but the suggestions are appropriate for anytime of the year!
What NOT to say to the infertile this holiday
What NOT to say to the infertile this holiday
Saturday, December 24, 2011
One Year Anniversary of last BFP
So yesterday was the one year anniversary of my last bfp :-( Three pregnancies, three angels, three years, sigh.
Wednesday, December 7, 2011
Clomid Hangover?
So last cycle while taking clomid for the clomid challenge test I ovulated 3 days later than my "usual" date. Now this cycle I got EWCM very early, and while my temps are very wacky I think I may have o'd on cd 13 - it works out for my travel schedule, but still it is a little weird. Well, I guess I dont care as long as I end up with a healthy baby in the end :-)
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